True Thanksgiving

Yesterday was Thanksgiving, but thanksgiving should be everyday. While many enjoyed feasts with family and friends there were some that did not have that option. Some were fed at local churches or missions, then there were those that had nothing at all for whatever reason. Living in one of the richest countries no one should go without food/shelter/clothing, those are our essential needs. Living in a country with such abundance, no one should be without their essential needs

I am always thankful for another day but I still have a heart for those that don’t have. It is always a blessing to be a blessing and I ask that you do your best to think of others as we enter into the season of “giving and caring”. PEACE!!!

Be Safe Out Here!!

I know that this post may seem like common sense but unfortunately, especially during this time of year, women end up victimized. Just because the holiday season is among us can we become lax in our vigilance for our safety.

Please if you must take a purse, guard it. With today’s technology all you need is your cell and a debit/credit card to shop. Wear a hoodie or jacket that has pockets on the inside and keep your valuables there. If you have large items and place them in your car, please drop your packages at home or at the very least drive to another parking space.

Leave your children at home during holiday shopping trips. If you must take them then keep your hands and eyes on them at all time. Do not send them to the rest room by themselves, do not let them view toys by themselves while you shop.

Lastly, always watch your surroundings if someone or something looks suspicious contact security or the police. If you large vans parked next to your vehicle, or something otherwise suspicious ask security to accompany you to your car.

Enjoy your holiday season and be safe!

Where Do Our Priorities Lie?

Right now all I see on social media, mainstream media and hear about in conversations is the recent death of a young rapper from Chicago. While this in itself is sad, what I find more sad is the fact that we have lost focus on what matters, things that we can change.

I am not heartless, as I am the mother of three young adults. I am just finding it hard to want to go out in the cold and hold a vigil for a young man that seemingly did not value his own life, while the many missing women and children barely receive honorable mentions. Everyday someone posts about a missing woman and/or child.

We can do something about this. We can be more vigilant in our communities. If you see a woman or child at the bus stop, especially alone, wait for the bus with them. You don’t even have to let them know you are doing it. Pay attention to your surroundings, do not walk around with headphones on. If possible do not travel alone. Always inform someone as to your whereabouts and with who.

I guess in summing up this post, what I’m saying is to make the living a priority. Save the lives that you can. We should not have to mourn another woman or child due to trafficking or senseless murder. We can make us a priority and help someone live another day.

I wish you peace.